Dare to be wrong

Packing up your deskHow many times can you afford to be wrong at work?

In life, we are probably wrong everyday. We make wrong decisions, make a wrong bet, or say the wrong things to people. However, life keeps going and we move on pretty quickly, learning something new as we go. In love, we are often wrong as well…at least 50% of the time (and a higher percentage for men). We choose the wrong partners and again say the wrong things.

Nevertheless, being wrong in our personal lives is usually nothing a bouquet of flowers can’t fix or a sincere apology will not cure. But how many times can you be wrong at work before you are packing up your office? Your boss is not your partner and does not really want to hear your, “Sorry, babe.”

Think twice

It becomes difficult to manage when, where and how you bring up a new idea to the company with the fear that you might be wrong. So what becomes the ultimate wrong choice here? Do you keep that gem of an idea to yourself, waiting for the right moment that may never come, or do you offer them up as they arrive?

Think it through before you go around pitching it to executives. This seems to go without saying. Not having done your research makes you look foolish to the people that control your paycheck and promotions. Does your company need what you are suggesting? Is the company’s competition already doing it and can you effectively do it better? These are the questions you should be asking yourself before you look naive. But don’t be deterred, either.

Two heads are better than one

So you have this great idea, but you are dying to tell someone. Letting someone in on your idea gives it a chance to become even better. Collaborating with a coworker is the ‘team player’ way to play it.

You should know how to at least kick it off, or be very clear the resources that it will take to complete the thought. Being the big picture person is only going to get you so far because almost everyone has heard the same gut wrenching words, “That’s a great idea, Jordan. Why don’t you be the front person for that?” You’d better be ready to take on any initiative you propose. Expect it.

“You messed up”

Every one knows it only takes one, “You messed up” to wipe away a month’s worth of, “Great work.” How many chances do we get to be wrong?

There is no definite number that will force you to start your Google search of jobs. Even in Silicon Valley, few get abruptly fired without warning. So until you hear the words, “I am giving you one more chance,” you can think of every new day as a clean slate to propose and dare to be wrong.



Categories: Innovation

Author:Kevin Jordan

Kevin graduated from Stanford in three years and is a contributing writer for The TIBCO Blog. Graduating from a engineering-focused university, Kevin quickly developed a passion for technology and its role in business. Still continuing some of his other creative ventures as well, he enjoys doing stand-up comedy and professional acting. Appearing on the Disney Channel and performing on stages from Las Vegas to the Bahamas inspires him to continue entertaining through written word, on comedy club stages, and on television screens. Bridging his creative ambitions and technical curiosity creates the balance he strives for.

Subscribe to the blog

Subscribe and receive an email when new articles are published

2 Comments on “Dare to be wrong”

  1. Max
    January 28, 2013 at 9:19 pm #

    Heard that two wrongs make it “right” or three “wrongs” make it “right” …

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: